Even when we enjoy our work and weekdays immensely, nothing really beats a weekend.
Friday has that special energy about it and two days of possibility stretch out before us. I personally used to be the victim of Sunday blues (find out how I beat them here).
Although I don’t suffer the Sunday sads anymore, I do often find myself working through a long list of errands and feeling like I’m spending more time preparing for the week ahead than enjoying my time off. So, I’ve come up with a new strategy to try:
Friday nights are for relaxation
This isn’t really a shift for me (ha!) but I’m making a conscious effort to either enjoy dinner out with friends, go to happy hour with coworkers or hit the couch at home at the end of the week.
The real aim is to relax but to also make sure I rest up for Saturday.
Saturdays are for errands and prep
Sounds fun right?! I actually looked at what errands and preparation I would like to do and, to be honest, it’s not going to fill my whole Saturday.
I think the real mental shift is batching all these tasks together so they’re out of the way and don’t seep into the entire weekend.
So in no particular order, I’ll be aiming to nail a combination of the following each Saturday (and I’ve included a time estimate to prove my point):
- A gym visit (1 hour)
- Supermarket shopping (30 mins)
- Meal preparation (see my best meal prepping tips here) (1-2 hours)
- Housework (1-2 hours)
- Study (more to come on this in the future...) (1-2 hours)
So even if we go with the maximum time estimates here, I’m looking at 7.5 hours of activities on a Saturday.
Luckily I’ll be awake for at least 14 hours, so half of Saturday is still mine for relaxing, catching up with people or doing whatever else I fancy.
What do you think? Am I crazy to cram all this in to one day?
Sundays are for fun
Ah, Sundays. I’m now looking forward to a mix of the following:
- Binge watching TV shows (or more specifically, cooking shows)
- Bike riding with the husband
- Museums / Art galleries
- Whatever else I come up with!
I’m not going to pack my Sundays full, but I am going to make sure I enjoy myself.
Rigidity is not the aim here - I know some Saturdays I will have catch ups with friends and won’t turn them down to spend time at the supermarket, but I’m going to try this framework over the next month and see how it leaves me feeling once Monday rolls around.
Do you have any tips on how you balance chores and fun on the weekends? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.